Spanking is a form of corporal punishment involving the act of striking, with either the palm or an implement, the buttocks of a person to cause physical pain. But we are not talking about spanking in this context, but rather in the context of erotic spanking. A form of spanking that gives pleasure to the person receiving the spanking.
Let's start exploring this form of spanking that seems to spice up the sex lives of many couples. Without venturing into sadomasochism, you could include some daring "spanking" in your sexual encounters and thus increase the level of excitement and intrigue with your partner.
So what makes spanking intriguing, and why do some women and men like to receive a spanking? This act has been practised for ages and has become an act that many couples enjoy in intimacy. It is not a form of aggression towards the individual themselves, but rather a game that generates pleasure and can help increase desire and, at the same time, those engaging in it.
You might find yourself surprised with your eyes open to the idea that some women and men ask to receive some spanking in bed to get more sexually excited. The spanking intensity is defined by the person receiving it and how intense they wish to be spanked. This ensures they receive the pleasure they desire and do not go to extremes and turn a pleasurable experience into a painful one which would defeat the goal of erotic spanking.
Why do some women get a lot of pleasure from spanking? There is physical contact between the person giving the spanking and the one receiving it. But it's a pain they seek, but rather pleasure from this type of spanking. Certain factors make erotic spanking desirable for some women because it gives them pleasure when they receive it. So, when spanking happens with a sexually erotic nature, it's not punishment but rather a practice that can generate a lot of pleasure.
When someone is having sex, the brain produces certain chemicals (hormones) called endorphins responsible for generating feelings of well-being. When a person receives an erotic spanking, they feel pleasure. It's sort of an analgesic effect whereby they feel the spanking, the endorphins act to reduce the sensation of pain, and at the same time, they get aroused by it.
In addition to feeling pain and arousal, the buttocks have various nerve receptors near the spine's edge. So, when spanking occurs, these receptors may act as pleasure receptors, something different as opposed to if you were to receive a blow in a different part of the body, in which you would only feel pain.
Another factor is that women get pleasure from this type of activity. Their full buttocks and genitalia are fully exposed to their partner. Some women feel sexually aroused at having another person touch and see their intimate body parts. Being fully exposed and vulnerable to their partner and showing their private parts for them to play with them.
This sort of activity has a long history with couples. More and more people enjoy this type of activity. From feeling a sense of punishment to going to pleasure in the same activity. Something unique for women and some men who enjoy it also. When combined with sex, you get a sense of alluring aggression from your partner, and many women desire their partners to be aggressive in sex. Then there is the guilt of pleasure you receive from it.
Being submissive in sex can be a huge turn-on for some women, who give all the control to their partner. This can give an individual a lot of pleasure, but there are limits that all couples should establish. If pain is the result, something went wrong, and it would no longer be erotic spanking. Erotic spanking should always yield pleasure for the person receiving it, and it should excite them in anticipation of the act. They should also feel aroused and feel good and pleasurable from receiving the spanking.
So do you enjoy an erotic spanking? It's not something new but rather an activity practised for ages. If you haven't tried it, it might be something worth exploring!
