How do you become a hotwife, have a husband and sleep with other men with his consent?

A feeling some women who are in a committed relationship. How can I become a hotwife and not lose what I have with my husband and at the same time have a boyfriend with the full consent of my hubby, as the means to satisfy a woman's craving of feeling butterflies once again and the emotions of going out with someone new?

Are you interested in becoming a hotwife and want to know how to get started without upsetting my husband? How should you begin?

First, talk to your husband about it subtly so as not to hurt his feelings. Ask him what his fantasies are and what he wants you to do. Start by sharing your fantasy with him about getting a boyfriend. Talk about how you will approach the whole thing and ensure he is OK with it.

Ask him any questions you may have and make sure you feel comfortable with what he wants because he will also need to get something in return. He might want to watch you, or he might want to be with another woman. You could also try role-playing with each other, where one of you plays the part of someone else in a scenario that turns both of you on.

How do I approach my husband?

So, you've decided that you want to become a hotwife and have a boyfriend. Great! Now comes the difficult part: approaching your husband about this new arrangement.

You'll want to be as honest and open with him as possible. It's best not to try and hide anything from him, but ensure you're also respectful of his feelings about the subject. Remember that no matter how excited he might be about it at first, he may still have some reservations or concerns—and it's important that those are taken into consideration before any serious decisions are made.

Be patient when it comes time to talk things over with him (if they're not ready for an open relationship yet). Don't pressure them into anything they aren't ready for; don't try talking them into having sex with other people if they aren't interested in doing so just yet. Take some time off from pursuing further conversation on this topic until both parties feel like their heads aren't spinning any more than necessary (and maybe even consider taking some time off from discussing sex altogether).

Finally: Don't be surprised if your husband isn't immediately enthusiastic about this idea! It does take some getting used too so don't expect every person who hears about this concept will fall head over heels from excitement at its mention either… but also know there could be some surprises along the way too!

How do I clarify that he can never ask me to sleep with the ones he prefers? While still letting him enjoy the thrill of watching me get turned on by other guys or me having sex with them?

You don't have to tell your husband about every guy you meet. You don't even have to tell your husband about most of them. If he's going to enjoy watching the process of becoming a hotwife, he needs only know what is necessary for him to get aroused by the thought of it happening.

• Do not tell him everything! It is important that he doesn't know every last detail about each person you sleep with or meet with the intention of seducing and doing things with later on (which will include many people). This will only crush his ego and make him feel like less than a man—because there are some things that even men can't handle knowing about their wives' sex lives!
• Tell him what he needs to know: What did they look like? What type of body did they have? How did they dress? Was there anything specific about their personalities or interests that got your attention? The things that turn them on sexually, such as whether they're dominant or submissive; oral sex preferences; what turns them off, etc., could be useful information depending on how far along in this journey together we are and whether or not you think these traits would be compatible with yours.

How do I decide which men to sleep with?

• Make sure they're attracted to you. If a man is not attracted to you, there's no way he'll want to sleep with you. (This is true for both men and women.)
• Make sure they're safe, respectful, and not married/taken/living with someone else who might object to the hotwife lifestyle. It shouldn't be hard for them to prove this—one way would be if the guy has a nice apartment that isn't shared with his family or roommates; another would be if he wears an expensive watch or ring that indicates wealth and independence; still another would be if he has an impressive job title on LinkedIn (or even just some Facebook photos taken at work).

The dynamics of getting into hotwifing

• You, the hotwife
• Your husband, who you call Daddy or Husband
• A third party (usually a man) for dating, having sex and even becoming a boyfriend

Conclusion

This is a great way to start, but there's much more to consider. It's important that you feel comfortable with the decision before getting into it. I hope this article has given you some ideas for approaching your husband and getting started with being a hotwife!