Sex with a new partner after being dumped!

I've been dumped by a partner and left feeling like this isn't the first time my heart has been broken.

I know what it's like to have your bubble burst, but you know what? You're better than that! You are going to find someone who will love you for all the reasons you deserve to be loved. So get out there and find them!

Don't make the same mistake twice.

You don't have to be with them forever. It's not your fault. You can learn from the experience and move on.

So...don't make the same mistake twice?

It's not your fault. You can learn from the experience and move on.

It's not your fault. You can learn from the experience and move on. So...don't make the same mistake twice? It's not your fault. You can learn from the experience and move on.

It would help if you felt comfortable with someone new.

When you're feeling vulnerable, jumping into a new relationship can be tempting to protect yourself from getting hurt again. But this is the exact wrong thing to do! You need to feel comfortable with someone new before you have sex with them. If everything feels rushed or forced, your body won't be relaxed enough for real pleasure and connection—you'll just be faking it for his benefit, which isn't fair for either of you.

Do you know that saying about taking things slow? Yeah: It applies here too. Don't rush into having sex just because you want comfort or validation right now—that's not fair to either party involved (and trust me, it won't get any better once everyone's naked). Your new partner deserves your patience and respect; remember that they're probably feeling nervous too! If they ask questions or give signals that make it clear they're not ready yet, take note and wait until tomorrow, next week, or next month...there's no rush here! And don't forget: It's OK if one person wants more time than another—maybe she thinks he should wait until after dinner; maybe he has reservations about whether she wants him too badly yet (which could mean trouble later). Either way, everyone deserves respect in these situations—and all parties involved deserve open communication without judgmental language like "slut" being thrown around (because, yes: slut-shaming is still very much alive).

You are going to have fun.

First things first, you're going to have fun. You will do things you've never done before and push the limits of your comfort zone, but that's OK because it's a time for new experiences. It can be hard to remember this when your brain is filled with thoughts about how much you miss him or how his ex-girlfriend looks like an actress from an old movie who died in an accident.

But also know that it isn't all sex toys and whips and things that go bump in the night. There's plenty of romance too: wine tastings with cute names; choosing a movie together based on the fact that they both involve two people falling in love with each other (a romcom classic); finding a mutual appreciation for late night/early morning social media browsing sessions; etcetera, etcetera...

However! What happens if he does something wrong? Or he makes advances toward you that make you uncomfortable? Or maybe he wants more than just sex. What then?

Don't be afraid of sexual exploration.

Sex is a great way to explore your sexuality. It can be an opportunity to try new things and discover what you like. If you're not comfortable doing something, don't do it! It's easy to get caught up in the moment, but tell your partner if you feel uncomfortable or nervous. If they listen and respect what you tell them, they care about your sexual health and pleasure.

Take advantage of what you've learned!

In short, you have more self-knowledge than ever before. This means that you're better able to take care of your own needs and those of your partner. You know what feels good for you, so it's easier to communicate with your partner about what you want them to do. You also better understand what turns you on and how best to communicate that information so that it won't be misinterpreted as criticism or pressure (which is often why people don't tell their partners what they want).

He may surprise you with his enthusiasm and skill.

You might be surprised to learn that the most enthusiastic person in bed isn't necessarily the best lover.

If someone is interested in sex, they're likely already pretty good at it. But if you're looking for a partner who will make you feel like the most desirable person on Earth, then enthusiasm alone won't cut it.

The truth is that some things make people better than others in bed: technique, experience and patience. A good lover will know how to hold their tongue and wait for the right moment before speaking up. They'll find out what makes you tick and try different ways of bringing out your pleasure without pushing too hard or being too gentle; they'll take their time getting to know your body so as not to miss any spots when touching or kissing (or licking).

Sex is different every time it's had.

The sex you have with a new partner is always different. You can't predict exactly how it will go, but you can be prepared for some differences.

• You might learn new things about your body or your partner's body.
• You may experience different feelings than you're used to, both physically and emotionally.
• The way one person expresses themselves in bed may be completely different from another person — this could mean more foreplay time or less foreplay time; more aggressive touching or less aggressive touching; long periods of kissing or quick kisses throughout the act; etcetera etcetera (see what I did there?).

You deserve an amazing sex life, no matter who you're into or how long you've been out of that situation!

You deserve an amazing sex life, no matter who you're into or how long you've been out of that situation! You are a sexual being, and you should be able to enjoy yourself. It doesn't matter how long it's been since your last time—if it feels good, go for it!

Conclusion

At the end of the day, there are many reasons to have sex with a new partner after being dumped. It can be exciting and fun, but most importantly, it will help you get over your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend faster. Take advantage of this opportunity if you're feeling lonely and need some comfort in your life. You deserve happiness!