How I convinced my husband to allow me to have a fling

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I went out on my date; it was strange for me at the beginning; I felt so nervous at the start of the date. We talked and talked all evening and had a wonderful time. Then came the time to go back home; I felt that I was going to get kissed and it did happen. It felt so good kissing this other man, I wasn't sure I should have felt this way, but I did. It was one of the most amazing kisses I have felt in a long time; it made me a bit emotional.

I went home and sat down with my husband to tell him how my date went. He was so sweet, he listened as I shared the events of the night. He was happy for me that I was feeling happy and excited about my date. We talked about our feelings and we talked about the prospect of another date with him. My husband was okay with it and felt comfortable with me and our relationship allowing men to see me again.

The next time I was going to go out on a date with this man, I decided that it would be a good idea to buy some condoms just in case things got hot and heavy. I felt a connection and was really horny, wanting to have sex with someone new. The following weekend I told my husband I had another date with this man. And I got his consent to go out and have a lovely evening with him.

On this date, things were fun; we had dinner, and after dinner, we danced a little and did a lot of kissing. I could not hold back on my primal instincts. I was feeling hot, feeling like I wanted to have sex and he was in the same position. We went to a hotel and I was as nervous as hell, my body was trembling. He started taking my clothes off and then I found myself naked in front of another man I had just met a few days back. Then he started removing his clothes; I wanted to see what he was packing down there.

When his pants came down, his trousers started rising; he was getting an erection. Then out came his cock; I could not stop staring and feeling all aroused. His cock was larger than my husband's and I grasped it with my hand and started stroking it. It felt so good to touch it and I could feel all wet in my pussy. I slid a condom over his penis and laid him down on the bed. He came over to me and started kissing me; I could feel his cock touching my pussy. Then he slipped inside of me; I had so many mixed feelings going through me. I wanted this moment for a long time, to experience having sex with someone new.

It was truly an emotional experience for me; sex was amazing with this man, or maybe because it was with someone new. I felt more than I had felt with my husband and enjoyed this amazing experience. Just felt him thrust his penis in and out until I reached the climax; I had an orgasm with my first sexual experience outside of my husband. I think it had a lot to do with the fact that I was really excited and aroused to have sex with someone different.

Heading home, I was thinking about how I was going to tell my husband that I had sex with this man. I did not even tell him I had bought some condoms just in case something did happen. Was it too soon for me to have sex and was it wrong to have sex without telling my husband this was going to happen? All of this went through my head while driving home. On the way home, I decided it would be best to tell my husband the truth. After all, it was a fantasy for both of us now and we decided to be honest with each other to protect our relationship.

The following morning, we got up, had breakfast, and shortly after we started talking about my date. I told him that something happened that night that was not planned. That we got carried away and we had sex that night and I was afraid that it would ruin our relationship. My husband came over to me and hugged me, comforting me at that moment and telling me everything was alright. He told me to tell him everything that went down and how I felt having intercourse with another man. He was very understanding. After telling him all the events, he was aroused, he had a nice erection going on. Turns out we had a great time having sex that morning and it felt like something new and exciting.

From that time on, I continued seeing this other man for a while, dating him, and having a lot of sex. My sex drive went way up and my husband benefited from it too. We found ourselves enjoying sex a lot more and we even talk about me having a husband and boyfriend and it's normal. No feeling ashamed, and most importantly, it's not something we are hiding from each other. This is part of our relationship and we love it; it works for us. I love the fact that I can have a boyfriend and my husband is perfectly fine with it. And I can honestly say that our lives and relationships have gotten stronger.

The best advice I can give another woman who wishes to try this is to simply be honest about it, plant a seed and grow the fantasy from there. Make sure to talk openly to your husband and put in safeguards to prevent problems. The last thing you want is to ruin your relationship with your husband. Boyfriends or girlfriends can come and go, but the one you truly love is the one you need to protect if you want to be a hotwife.

So have fun, enjoy the new emotions and experiences, and best of all, enjoy the sex.